Salam.
Hari ini memang aku tersangat letih. Tak tahu kenapa tetapi aura katil memang terasa teramat kuat.
Blog kesayangan tampaknya semakin siap. Galeri bergambar juga sudah boleh dilawati - silalah lawat andai ingin melihat pelbagai gambar. Sekarang ini aku dalam proses untuk menyiapkan album ketiga yang akan memaparkan gambar aku dan teman-teman d-68-b. Aku juga telah berjaya mengadakan bahagian baru yang bergerak-gerak yang mana ia memaparkan pandangan umum mengenai diriku. Lantaklah orang nak kata apa pun, yang penting hidup mesti gembira.
Petang tadi aku menemai Hidzad ke Tanjung Gelang; mencari pejabat tempat dia akan menjalani latihan amali selama 3 bulan. Akhirnya, kawan aku ini hanya tinggal satu semester lagi untuk menamatkan pengajian. Syabas la wei, lepas ini boleh belanja aku. Hidzad dan aku merupakan sahabat sejak darjah 4 (duduk sebelah menyebelah lagi dalam kelas hingga tingkatan 5). Aku pula telah letih mengemel resume ke pelbagai syarikat, antaranya MAS, BMW, Telekom, Security Commission dan Maybank. Agakan aku, antara banyak-banyak umpan yang telah aku taburkan pasti satu akan mengena. Balik dari Tanjung Gelang, kami bershooto. Pergh...keputusannya aku menang 5 daripada 6 perlawanan. Ternyata latihan yang diterima semasa berada di d-68-b telah membuahkan hasil.
Ad pula hari ini mengadu yang aku selalu mengacau. Biasalah ad, siapa lagi yang sudi mengacau ad kalau bukan abang. Ekekeke.....Patin dan Zi tidak dapat dikesan. Mungkin sedang menjadi kepompong atau sibuk belajar + bergosip. Tapi tadi teropong ajaibku mengesan mereka ini di Alamanda Putrajaya. Dengan ehem ehem. Wah wah wah..semakin MESRA (bab kata bob AF2) nampaknya mereka ini. Syabas juga diucapkan kepada zi dan ad kerana akhirnya blog mereka telah mula dilawati. Kalau boleh, rajin-rajin menulis supaya dapat keh baca kisah hidup anda semua yang sentiasa dibayangi oleh mem memasing. Hari ini juga aku sempat berchat dengan Lan setelah sekian lama. Kenapa diam sahaja - takkan merajuk membawa diri.
Bosan dan bosan dan bosan. Entah kenapa sekarang ini fikiranku asyik sahaja terbayang mengenai kemesraan para belia kuala medang. Bila lagi agaknya aku berpeluang untuk beraktiviti bersama-sama mereka. Dahulunya, hari minggu sebegini akan dihabiskan dengan bermain boling (dari pagi sampai ke malam). Sekarang, bermain hanya 2 game sudah begitu membosankan. Mungkin kerana aku sudah tidak sehandal dahulu. Nasiblah, karier sukan terpaksa dikorbankan bagi memberi tumpuan kepada agenda yang lebih utama: POLITIK.
Pukul 8 malam tadi aku sempat mengerling ke kaca televisyen. Wow! Gegaran susulan berukuran 6.8 pada skala rikter telah melanda sumatera sekali lagi. Gegaran turut dirasai di Lembah Kelang. Semoga Cyberjaya terlepas daripada menerima sebarang gegaran sepanjang aku berada di sana bermula selasa ini. Amin.
It has been quite some time since the last time i wrote something in English. A lot have been happening in the world lately and its not much to celebrate about. My triplet friends are still experiencing not so good ties with their emotional roomates, my throat is killing me, a repetition of same old boring days and a disastrous earthquake hit Indonesia. Indeed, not much to celebrate.
A special reminder to the triplet: it is important to differentiate between colleagues who are simply annoying and ones who are destructive. Never fear, for below, ive listed two types of colleagues that can poison(or at least screw up) the environment in your own room and i also tell you guys how to put them in their place once and for all.
Insecurity
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Insecure people boost their self-image by criticising others or by throwing tantrums. They are also keen to defend (justify, even) whatever they have done or said, even if they are not being directly criticised. This can also be a very dangerous sign because insecurity often comes with a good deal of paranoia.
Fix It
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It may be difficult, but reassure them to build up their self esteem. Don;t snap back at them, but be assertive adn attempt to see the problem from their point of view. Ignore temper tantrums by remaining silent. if you attack them directly, they are likely to get very very defensive and hold a grudge.
Negative
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Negative people are very damaging because they affect those around them, and may be trying to protect themselves from future failure. Negative people can also be aggresive, bullying types who demand that things be done their way and always know best. Often you can start to identify the negative types two or three months into a new environment after everyones become used to your presence. They will usually sidle up to you and then, in a confidential tone, start griping about this or that aspect of the environment. if you take it to heart, you may become negative too. But be careful, many bullies are cowards who would prefer it if you fought their battles for them.
Fix it
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get them to explain whay they feel as they do, but dont waste time arguing. If the person is a bullying type and you can avoid dealing with them, perhaps it is best to steer clear as bullies rarely change. And if you escape them, another effective tactic is to ask them why they dont seek someone else.
And finally, to my dearest friend Hamizah, how;s life over there. Can i have your url since ive lost the one you gave a few months ago. Till then, be nice to each other
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